We women have been blessed with the amazing ability to talk. Well, not just talk, but yak; mountains of words about the terribly important to the downright boring and mundane.
Really, our mountain of words, which is simultaneously amazing and annoying to men, is how we work through life: we gather and discuss facts; find support; make decisions and make the next move.
Interestingly, the decision to keep or abort unplanned babies is many times done in isolation or with little information or little support.
Sister, this decision is too momentous. It requires a mountain of talk. You need support. You need the facts. You need a listening ear. Do not make this decision alone.